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I was diagnosed with Boderline Personality Disorder. I have not yet been prescribed any medication. I am also currently seeing a therapist. The problem is I have terrible mood swings, uncontrollable anger, and now am constantly arguing with my husband. He says he trys so hard to avoid my temper, mood swings or outbursts but says I never understand anything he is saying to me and I take everything he says the wrong way. Sometimes I feel that I do that and other times I don't. My marriage is on the rocks right now and I don't want to lose him. please help!

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