I Love My TeacherWed, Mar 25th 1998I am a girl of 16 and I think I am in love with my female teacher; she's 30. I don't know how to tell her about my feelings. Anne Responds I highly recommend not telling her! It is not uncommon for individuals in your stage of life to confuse their feelings. Is it possible that you are confusing admiration with love? Do you have any experience with homosexual relationships? Does she? It is not uncommon for individuals of the same sex to feel strongly about one another, but it is not necessary to act on those feelings. There are also too many negative consequences if you were to tell her of your feelings, social as well as legal. She is your teacher and you are a minor... Consider how telling her about your feelings could affect your friendship with her. Have you told any of your friends about your feelings? How did they react? You must consider the social stigma that homosexuality still carries. You are young and peers often react negatively to those who are different. There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, but you should be sure of your sexuality before announcing it. Don't do something that you may regret later. Best of luck, - Anne - Anne Oh Dear. - - Jan 30th 2010
I'm 16. Female. I'm in college. I think I like my English teacher. She's 27- I'm almost 17. She's been my English teacher for 3 years. She's one of those teachers that everyone likes. She's lovely. I've always thought she was attractive but it's only lately I've started thinking maybe I'm actually attracted to this women. I wouldn't say I'm a lesbian, I'm not even sure I'd say I'm bi. She's the only women I've ever had these feelings for. I'm so confused. I'm also so very glad I'm not the only one : ) Thank you all for making me feel less- lonley. not alone - hilde - Jan 21st 2010
i'm just glad i'm not alone,i'm 15,and majorly in love with my eng.teacher,she's 26 years older then me married,kids all that.but yet i find myself in love with her,i've had sex dreams bout her.and always talk sexually bout her,i cant stop thinking bout her and in class its even worse bc seeing her fuels all my thoughts bout her even more so i barely pay attn. in class anymore besides my "fantasies" bout having sex with her,im also like very intently staring at her,i think she's noticed too,idk wht 2 do? My problem has gone further.. - Kath - Jan 14th 2010
hello I am a 16 year old female and as all of you I've fallen in love with my teacher who is 27, she is my hawaiian dance teacher (I know this sounds weird though)
and well I've known her for just a little time maybe just 5 or 6 months but since the first time I saw her I knew she was special, She had an special interest in me and then I started noticing I was developing some kind of weird obsession on her, though I can not say I am lesbian, cause even if try to accept it I just can't. But well my real problem here is that we've become good friends, now I know she is lesbian and has been in a relationship with another girl for about 5 years. she flirts with me a lot and once told me she really thought I was lesbian and told me it was just a matter of time for me to accept it, and the worst thing is that since I knew she was lesbian I told her I liked her, and then she told me she could imagine it for the way I looked at her. I really felt awkward around her cause instead of being afraid she started flirting even more and well I followed her game.. told her several time I really wanted to kiss her, but she never told me if she really felt something for me or not...
Last week i was with some friends and she offered to take me home and well....she kissed me then.... and at the beggining I felt as if I was dreaming it, It was just the best thing that could ever happen to me, but now I am confused since I know she likes to be with lots of girls and well I think she's playing with me -__- and I really really am getting to love her.... but it is starting to hurt so much.... and I don't know what to do...
im in love with my P.E teacher - Nikki - Dec 19th 2009
(sorry for the spelling im dislexic)
it all started 4 years ago when she first came to the school her beauty was mide blowing, her humor was amazing and she was always similing.after that first gaze in to her giant blue eyes i was lovestruck. i would use any excuse to go and see her . she use to get cold easly so i always let her my hat it carred on like this for ages i use to love playing vollyball as she is quite clumsy and would fall over alot. i remember this one game use both jumping for the same ball, coliding mid air and her falling on me and not getting up as she was laughing to hard. but this last year, im not shore if it is me or it is really happerning, she seemed to be more interested in me and we would catch each others eye and she would blush and look away. she asked to use my phone as i passed she looked in to my eye and stroked by hand as she took it. i gave her a birthday and a christmas prisent yesterday she hugged me then kissed me then later during the christmas consert i was sat on a table right at the back and she was sat on a stool the front on the left from me as she was talking to her friend on her right she kepted staring at me then she moved in front of me and made me put my feet on her stool so she could lean back on me. i found out that she has reasently bronken up with her boyfriend ------ this has all got to mean somthing hasent it ?? please someone help me if it does mean somthing i dont want to miss out on a chance with her but if it doesnt i dont want to ruien our friendship---- im 17 and openly bi (stranglly enouth she was the one who helped me out myself) so if anything was to happen i leave school in a couple of weeks so its legal English teacher - - Dec 18th 2009
last year I liked my french teacher a lot to the point of being extremely shy in her classes because I was afraid i would mess up when she talked to me. she could be a real b*tch too but i loved her sarcasm and i think it was her wit that made me "love" her.
I'm not sure if I "love" my teacher or admire her. I would kiss her but that's all i think. It's my english teacher this year- it's the first year i've had her and she is so lovely. she always talks to us in class and i've had a few good conversations with her. i'm much louder in her class than i was in my french class but she seems to like the other girls she taught last year more.
I don't know whats wrong with me it feels like i have to look popular in front of her so she will be impressed or something... like today i was walking to class with this guy and she was there so i started talking to him loudly and laughing and stuff and she saw us and smiled. i also always walk past her class to see if she's in there. hopefully my feelings for her will leave soon because i dont even think its healthy to like her so much. Me, and my impossible love. - DrinkDrankDish - Dec 9th 2009
Sorry for my english, I'm italian :)
Well, like everyone in this topic, I'm in love with my teacher.
Everything began three years ago, when I was 14 at my first day in high school (here we have a different school system). When she came in class my heart stopped beating. I was paralized, but I thought "Ok, she's a great piece of pussy, amazing." And for some days I hadn't feelings for her, of course I liked her, but only as person, it wasn't love, just admiration. Then I fell in depression because I believed I was in love with a friend of mine (a girl) - then I understood it wasn't love, it was a fixation. However, I was in depression for this girl and I became self-defeating (I'm not proud of it), I cut myself. My teacher discovered it and we began to have a dialogue. As we began to talk, as I understood how she was an amazing person. After this, we wrote on messenger and we talked every single day (more or less). I knew her, and more we talked, more I liked her. Of course I told her I was bisexual and for two years she's always been close to me. Now she isn't my teacher, but we still talk. Of course I'm afraid to let she know about my feelings...my friends say that I must talk to her, but I've much fear! She fill my heart from three years, and I'm sure that is love...isn't admiration or something else.. I tried to fell in love with other boys and girls but nobody make me feel like she does. Don't know what to do. She's everything to me, and she doesn't understand it. If I tell her about my love she'd go away, and I can't live without her in my life. So, what can I do? I don't know if she's straight,bi or gay (but I think she likes men :( ), anyway we have the detachment between teacher-student yet.
If you don't understand my post, I'm sorry, but my english is very limitate :/
Please, help me..I can't take it anymore...I've got a limit!!
Thanks for have read :) i need someone to talk to who's going through the same thing... - - Nov 22nd 2009
i, like everyone else here, am in love with my teacher too and i just wanna talk to someone about it but it would be quite weird if i talked to my friends, because they wouldnt understand. so, if you wanna talk at all, my email is - ahyees_little_sister@hotmail.co.uk - thank you. :) Why - Taylor - Nov 6th 2009
Why can't I not tell this teacher of mine that I'm emotionally inlove with her everyday and night I think about her 24/7. I have sexual feelings for her everyday. When I look at my teacher I know she is the one for me but don't know if she is gay, bi, or straight. I think that she is gay but not sure. I want her so badly I would do anything and everything for her. I would die for her and I would marry her if I had the chance. I think about her like she holds the other half of my heart. My heart desires her. When she is near me I want to kiss her and I scream in my head saying you belong with me nobody else. When she talks to other people I get jealous and want her to talk to me the way she talks to them. When she gets infront of the classroom teaching I fanasize about her. I got it bad for my teacher. I have her email address but not sure if I need to tell her my feelings. I see us holding hands, getting married, having sex, kissing out in public. I can't take it anymore I really want to tell her but scared and affraid of how she will react and the troubleness I'm getting us involved in. If you are a 423 and not AN overseas number text me at 423- 305-8015. Just looking for somebody to talk to since my counselor don't understand. THANKS! Don't know - Taylor - Oct 27th 2009
I don't know cause I'm a gay girl in that position where I want to tell my teacher that I'm falling inlove with her but can't tell her.
babbling junk, which you don't have to read... - - Oct 22nd 2009
since everybody else is telling stories, so will i :)
i'm 16 and totally in love with my old history teacher who's around 34. she is amazing funny, charming, caring and the most beautiful person that i have ever seen, well to me anyway, some people think shes ugly which i can't see. anyhoo, its been around 3 years, and i've thought about her everyday for i don't know how long. she's totally straight and i'm not too sure what i am. but i got really depressed over her (is that a really stupid thing to get depressed about?) and she was the only person i trusted enough to talk to, i never told her why i was depressed and i'm not too sure if i ever will. i just wanna see her everyday, just to know if she's alright, i would gladly die for her, as some people have been saying and... i miss her.
sorry about the babbling nonsense and if you read it than thanks =] and thank you to everybody who's commented, at least i'm not alone :P sorry if i comment more, i might wanna add things... though i may not... :) In love - ell see - Oct 22nd 2009
help
im in love with my teacher , shes the most amazing person ever , shes funny , shes caring , and i love her , she has blonde curly hair , and the cutest baby hairs , her eyes are so bueatiful and blue , she has the cutest walk ever , she has the most flawless skin , and the nicest body ever ! she smells like gorgio of beverly hills , she likes coldplay , she teaches science and maths , she plays badminton ! shes amazing ! i hate my self because while playing badminton i hurt her leg :( nooo !!!
well i know her 2 years and i have never felt so emotionally attached to someone i held her hand once and i didnt want to let go , i had butterflies in my stomach !! , Shes my soulmate , the angel cards told me i found my soul mate , who is infact female, i know her from school , she is very bueatiful , old , but looks younger than she is
i just want her to know how i feel , and if she sees this , then i know that she knows who i am , and to ask me about it !! please
because i would GLADLY die for her , i would kill my self if she died ! if i ever hurt her i would want to die , shes the person i dream about , in fact i dream of her every night , shes always there , when i was 12 all i wanted to do was kiss her now i want to her with her forever and ever ¬¬
Ell see Its all the same! - - Oct 8th 2009
It seems everyone has the same problem but with different people! Im 15, female and gay. Im in love with a teacher: We had her as a cover teacher last year for quite a few months, when i first saw her, i knew there was something about her that i liked, i knew instantly that i would have a crush on her, i figured out i was gay not too long ago, but i was going through a really rough time and she kept asking if i was ok, and she was the only one who did ask. So one day i told her everything, all my problems about being gay and stuff, and id stopped eating, so i talked to her almost everyday about eating and stuff, and she helped me alot, i also got very depressed and she helped me through it, the only thing that is keeping me depressed now is her though! She doesnt teach me now, but we keep in contact via email and i make any excuse to see her, were really friendly now, and i think shes the most amazing person ever. Shes the first thing i think about when i wake up and the last thing i think about when i go to sleep and its been going on for ages and i know it will continue for as long as i see her, which is potentially another 3 years, so im in for 3 years of hell, and it makes me want to cry! I just cant get her off my mind, shes just the amazing. So there you go, just another story for everyone, it feels good to write it down. ahhh!!! - - Oct 3rd 2009
okay so i gotta make this short basically i was inlove with a teacher who is a female and i didnt have any classes with her i juss saw her in the halls.... um i was 15 when i first saw her n i would try and find her in the hallways we had the same lunch sometimes i would see her and we would make eye contact.. i knew i loved her bcuz i could never stop thinking about her and i was still feeling her in the eleventh grade... so basically i did research found out she was married =( i was so sad and mad because we would always try to find a way to see each other everyday considering we had no classes together i thought somethin was there.. so i found her email on the school website and i just said hey gave her my name and number never got anything back so i was becoming so inlove with this teacher that i had to keep sending emails to her juss sayin hey can u juss email me back so we can talk and nothing!!! yeah its sad but anyways i did a little more research and found out she lived right down the street from me!!! and she would always pass my house n i would wait for her sometimes n we would connect eyes the one time she stopped infront of my house i think to c that it was actually me bcuz we both were in awww.. but anyways i wrote her a letter in put it in her mailbox and at this time i was graduated.. a few weeks later the school police called me givin me a warning not to send her emails to her nothin personal ya kno... so basically i was obviously really hurt because i was like inlove with this girl i found out she lives on my street so its like i never can get away from her its making me go crazy and lookin in my eyes everytime we pass each other in the car !!! but to all u guys out there i say go for it but definetly when ur graduated like i did Maybe she will, maybe she won't - Maz - Aug 22nd 2009
Hi, I am female and was 11 years old when I first met my love interest.
I did exceptionally well in the year 9 SATS in 2007 and just happened to end up in her top english class in year 10 (moving up two classes). Sometimes I felt like I didn't belong, as if I wasn't 'smart' enough but she accepted me quickly and wrote little notes in my exercise book encouraging me to 'impress' her. I quickly learned that she had a wonderful sense of humour and that I could 'impress' her with even the cheesiest of little jokes and comments.
One night, after class, we just talked about rubbish, friendly banter (can't even remember what we talked about), when she suddenly leaned with her head on her folded arms on one of the chairs that was stood on a table. She stopped talking and looked straight into my eyes. We didn't say anything for what seemed like minutes, we just stared.
After weeks of admiration, I actually wrote this lady a letter that told of how I felt and of course she denied it. She beckoned me to talk to her about it, but as I explained in the letter 'we both know that God and the law could never accept this'.
The following weeks were embarrasing, she couldn't look anywhere near me, let alone 'straight into my eyes'. She upset me with her rejection but even at 14 years old, I wasn't nieve enough to expect anything to happen there and then. I would wait. I just knew that there was a tiny bit of potential for her and I in the future and that it would hurt like hell if she found someone else.
At the moment, I am 16 years old and it's the summer holidays. After two years of trial and error with this lady, she's still the first thing I think about when I get up in the morning and the last thing I think about at night. I hope to go to sixth form college that just happens to be attached and in the same building as my secondary school and I promised I'd 'see her around'.
This lady has always inclinated that something could happen in the future, she indented them into her lessons, she sent a 'love note' rejection to everyone in the class, mail merging everyones name onto them so they were personal. She wrote something like- she had tried to love me but she can't, she now knows that she can't spend the rest of her life with someone she doesn't want to be with ending with 'sorry' and two kisses. Yet a few weeks later she spoke about rememberig when she was 16 and it wasn't that long ago, which once again spiked hope into me because she made a look on her face as if to say 'maybe.. one day... you never know', 'i'm not that old'. Ha ha.
I hate her so much for making me feel this way, surely she knows what i'm feeling, she doesn't know half of the scarring she leaves on my heart, but at the same time, it would be impossible to love her more because she hasn't just taught me english, she taught me about love too.
She hates me because I love her, I hate her because she doesn't see it. Thank you to everyone who's read all of this but how many of you can say that you will wait years for the same person, no matter how long it takes? Please consider your love interests and their careers and if anything ever happened you would be jeapordising their lives for your selfish 'pleasure'. If you mean it, you will wait too right?
I love her xXx For the love of history. - - Jun 10th 2009
I am not sure if i can keep this comment short.
As you see i am madly in love... with my 29 year old history teacher. I am 15 and in grade 10. We are both female.I can't explain how much i love her. But sadly she doesn't know how much she means to me.
Looks: She was a slim body about 5"5', she has this smile that could melt your heart, her eyes are a blue green, she has these cute freckles on her nose, her hair is sholder length brown and curly, and her glasses make her personality.
Why: Why do I love her? Maybe its her passion for history? Her love of hockey? The fact that she is only the most amazing person in the world? or maybe her sense of humor? I have never met anyone like her.
How: How do we interact with each other. I see her every day fourth period for Canadian history. We talk every day. When we talk we hold eye contact longer then most people do. We touch each other when we talk (Grab arm, sholder etc.)
Proof: Where is the proof that she might have the same feeling for me? Well we do flirt alot. The touching of our hands. She even once held my hand and looked me in the eyes and said "I will never forget you".
Love: I know for a fact that i love this women> She means everything to me. One day i will tell her how i feel and maybe just maybe she will have those feelings too.
Sorry for how long it is. I love my PE - ilovemT - Jun 3rd 2009
i am female and so is my beautiful PE who is about 30 & married! i am 14 & i know i have no chance. i dream of her and jack off over all the time. the other day i was sat on a chair as she stretched up to turn on a fan! I went in to heaven as i saw up her top. i sound like such a perv but my feelings are so strong, i dunno what to do! loved them like they were a part of my family - someone - Apr 19th 2009
HI! i recomend to you don't think that you love her in the way you can love a boy of your age....I felt the same way but not only with my teacher etc...and i knew that that wasn't the kind of love you think it is...think about dateing with her wouldn't it be disgoustin'...i loved them like they were a part of my family...and when i realized that...since then i love them still but not obsessive does she think i'm obsessed? - - Mar 31st 2009
i'm in year 11 now, 15 years old. when i was in year 10 i went on a school trip that involved water sports and other crazy activities. unfortunately i happened to be on my period but didn't think i would be so i didn't come prepared.. so i went to see the female teacher on the trip and told her that i didn't bring enough stuff, she was really kind and took me to a supermarket to stock up. she was so kind and when i said i didn't want to join in some of the water activities she was fine with it and just let me do something else with her. when we returned from the school trip i went to say thankyou to her because i wouldn't have been able to cope without her but i nearly cried and she gave me a hug. after this point i always wanted to see her, not because i fancied her, but just because she gave me the attention that i wanted.. i had dreams that she would talk to me, or counsel me with my problems. eventually i got over it.. now i'm struggling with my dance gcse and she used to be a dance teacher and she said that we could go to her anytime for help.. and i went to see her but when i talked to her i went all hot and red and i think it was definately noticable, i also got all emotional.. i need to see her again for her to help me but i'm so embarassed..how do i stop myself going red and getting emotional? this happens with my science teacher as well.. what's wrong with me? xx Update - - Mar 31st 2009
not too long ago, about january, i wrote a comment about my history teacher. i realised she wasnt pregnant and that i was probably just paranoid. anyway, me and her have become alot friendlier than we had been and it has really lightened my mood:D its only made me fall for her more, but it really has been the best 2 months of my life. ive been having issues at home and at school, and at the end of one of my lessons, she kept me back to ask me what was up and since then, she's been like a friend to me:) shes told me personal things and same with me and weve smiled at eachother in the hallway, said hi, said bye after lessons and everything. shes been so lovely with me. she has the sweetest nature and shes also funny, clever and extremely beautiful, all the boys have crushes on her and they all stare at her and make sexual comments as she walks by. she said shes coming to see me on my career experience day:) people have noticed that we're mostly together alot of the time and one of my friends even referred to me and her as 'best buds', but i still think that a 'bond' is wishful thinking. she looks at me in class and when she's standing in the hallway when she's on duty, but a)it's not all the time and b)when she does, i think she's just watching to see if i'm okay. she's still engaged to my turd of a math teacher and I think they're due to get married in summer which will kill me. So i'm trying to make most of the time i have left really. I've tried falling out of love and it isn't working. So aswell as talking to her constantly, i'm trying to brace myself for her getting married. all the other stories, i can't explain how much i can related to some of them, and those who do have a special bond with their teachers, I envy you and I wish i had a special bond with mine too. My Professor Is So Sexy - Milan - Mar 30th 2009
I'm a female master's level student and I've recently developed a crush on my professor. I've been her GRA for the past year. When I first began the GRA position my feelings towards her were neutral. However, as she began to encourage and develop the academic side of me I noticed a crush beginning to take place. At first I tried to ignore the crush, but I recently learned that she is bisexual and that's made it difficult for me to ignore my feelings towards her. However, I am aware enough of myself to understand that my crush has more to do with the qualities she possesses that I wish to embody; including her sexual orientation (I’m still in the closet). The difficult part of this for me is that she wears clothing that exposes her mid-drift (I can imagine myself caressing her there), sits close to me (when we're alone in her office -- the door is open, but still!, and responded in some way (I’m not sure what) when I placed a piece of gum in my mouth. I'm beginning to wonder if it's all in my head or is something going on here? It's feels like there's energy between us, but I can't imagine her being even remotely attracted to me. Also last week she told me I smelled nice and this week I looked good. Now that may sound strange, but I did smell nice last week and I was dressed extra nice that day (five other people told me the same thing) -- so I could be overreacting. I admit I did enjoy it, but fear the consequences. Either way, I'd never respond, out of fear for both of us. What I'm wondering the most is how do professors know if a student has a crush on them and if they do, would they do anything different to discourage that crush (such as not sit closely next to that person)? I guess part of me wants her to know so she'll be extra sensitive to me, but then maybe I just need to advert my eyes??? The other part of this is that since we are both women she may be talking to me as women often talk to each other, i.e. you look nice, what is that you’re wearing, and we give hugs. She’s reached out to hug me twice, both times were appropiate to the situation. This is becoming difficult for me. Any advice? Don’t look 1 more thing- - Sophia - Mar 28th 2009
i forgot to say-my health teacher possibly is bisexual. and others have noticed the bond between us. 1 teacher, a male, may like her and he is constantly checking to see if I go into her classroom after school and he always stares at me when I'm with her. He tries to get her attention, but she seems to be focused on me mainly and he doesnt like it. He never smiles at me when I offer a smile and he smiles at the other students, but not me. And one day when my teacher came into gym class, she went over to us and she told us to do some pushups for her. she said "come on guys. do it with me." and a kid said "nah, how bout you and sophia do it?" and she looked suprised, angry, then somewhat catious, and then she had a really werid smile on her face! and she didnt call him out or anything...i didnt hear it myself , but through a friend who was there told me. so thats it. thanks and srry for rambling! -from Sophia Confused bout my health teacher - Sophia - Mar 28th 2009
I have read all of your stories, and they have touched me on a deeply personal level since I am struggling with the same problem. I am a freshman and i am having deep feelings for my health teacher, and the feelings MAY be mutal. She and I have talked privately sometimes after school, and what she says really leaves me thinking and i learn a lot from her. She is 25, I am 15. Whenever I talk to her, she sometimes pauses a lot and she looks down and she sometimes sighs after she says something and then she sits there at her desk and smiles and i smile back at her, and we're kind of staring at each other, maybe not really sure what to say and I always break the stares off, for fear of revealing too much in my facial expressions. And she will chuckle and say "Well...it was nice of you to stop by". And sometimes when I come to her to ask her when I can talk to her again, she will beam at me and say almost in disbelif : "You want to talk to me? after school? alone?" and she will go red or have a grin on her face. and she always says "I'm looking forward to it!" and she has come to my house for dinner and she afterwards told me that she had a nice time at my house. Almost everyday, when I'm in history class, last period of the day, she comes walking in the hall, and from where I sit I can see her and she waves to me and sometimes I catch her looking at me when she's talking to someone else, and if she catches my gaze, she will either: 1) Smile and wave 2)look away quickly 3)look somewhat embarrassed. Whenever we pass each other in the halls, she sometimes touches my shoulder and rubs my arm up and down. She doesnt really like it when other kids at my school flirt with her, and some of the times it was in front of me and she basically told them to go away and she would return to our converstation like nothing happened. She has been affectionate with me, on several occasions touching my arm, hugging me, and putting her arm around my shoulders. She has called me "babe" once. and one day when I was walking in the hall, going to tennis practice with my friend and we were dressed in tight shirts and shorts and she saw us and she said "whoa!" smiling and she said it again and she was looking us up and down and her gaze flickered to me and smiled. In class, I notice her watching me while I do my classwork and once I looked up at her and we had an intense stare before I pulled away. And I have caught her looking at me and when I did she immediately looked down at her book and started wrting. In class, she tells me that she looks forward to reading my papers or hearing me present. My friend knows her and we talk about her. My friend has told me that whenever my health teacher sees me, her eyes light up and sparkle and she is sometimes blushing and she is a bit shy in my prescence. I have noticed her blushing when I tell her nice things. When we talk, she almost always giggles at me. I have never seen her giggle that much with anybody else, except her boyfriend(Yes, I met him!) And she laughs at my jokes, even when they're really not that funny. She told me that I was her best student out of all of her classes and she has said that she would like me to keep contact with her...She tells me personal things sometimes and I offer some insight into them and she tells me that I'm sweet and she at once mentioned that if I stopped visiting her, she wouldnt know what to do, and that she would miss my visits. I told her that I cared for her, and she said "I love-I really really really like you." She almost said love! and she very quickly changed it to "like". I cant help but wonder if she has an attraction to me? I would very much like other ppl's insight into my situation...and I would appreciate it. I would like to know if you think she has an attraction to me. This is a very unsual time in my life and I am realizing my sexuality and am open to exploring it. And this teacher really shares a lot with me and I would love to share a whole lot more with her. Thank you for reading this! Im not alone? - ANON - Mar 24th 2009
First off im 16 my english teacher ( i noticed a lot of these teachers everyone is inlove with , teach english) is around 25/26I first had feelings for when i was i would dream about her and crave to see her in the corridor just to see her perfect smile once more.Then recently we all found out she was a lesbien, she has a girl friend.In the past year my feelings have become stronger, i really think its love but im not sure what i can do about it.I cannot tell her, but i cannot stop loving her?Shes so beautiful, her eyes and smile light up the room , she has an amazing sense of humor and when i see that she is upset about something, it makes me unhappy, im jealous, of her and her girlfriend, i wish it was me and her but i know it will never happen, i wish i didnt feel like this, i talk about her all of the time ahink about her even more.I don't know what to do, i cannot let her no, it would ruin everything, everything would be too awkward but in class i cannot stop staring at her, hoping she'll stare back, compliment me in some way.I have never felt this way about anyone before.I just do not know what to do, please help me. I'm in love with my history teacher! - - Mar 19th 2009
First off, I am bisexual for sure, no doubt about it. Anyway, shes 50, and I'm 14. Shes the nicest person I've ever met, most people don't like her..I'm not exactly sure why. I guess because she accually teaches. She doesn't know I'm bisexual, and I'm not sure I want her to know, mainly because she seems really religious, because she's often refering to god. I hug her all the time, and I'm always telling her that I love her, and she says it back at me. What's strange is, if were in the hallway, and there are people around, we don't accually say "I love you" we "mouth" it to each other, or say it quietly. My best friend and I are always talking about the situation, were usually joking about it. However, when I get serious about it and ask her questions about it, all she says is I don't know. It also seems like she is always looking my direction when shes teaching (even my friend has noticed it). I know this isn't a sexual attraction for her, but for me it sorta is. I love her as a mother, or friend more than anything. I love talking to her, and wish I could more often. We tease each other alot too, just making fun as friends do. I'll be talking to a friend saying something like "God, I feel dumb today" and she'll say something like (shes not even in the conversation shes just nearby) "today more like everyday," and laugh little things like that. Also, if I'm upset she'll ask me whats wrong, and first thing the next day, as soon as she sees me, she'll ask if I'm in a better mood. I've gotten in trouble with her before, for things like cussing in class, and we were mean to each other for a few days, then I appolgized and everything was ok. So, I want to know if this is normal, does it sound normal, does it sound like she cares about me at all, or just being a teacher? The crazy feminist and I - Jesse Smithers - Mar 10th 2009
I'm 16, my English teacher (female) is in her 50s. She crosses my mind at least twice a day and I savour each minute of class time I have with her. We get on really well and share so many interests. I don't love her as such, I just have so much respect and admiration for her skill as a teacher and her passion for her subject. I am drawn to independent women and she certainly embodies that as she has a strong character. I will be very upset when I leave school...my day revolves around her class and our meetings at lunchtimes. History Teacher (L) - - Mar 1st 2009
I would like to start off and say i am 15 years old girl and in grade 10. I'm in love with my 30 year old history teacher (also a girl). When i first meet her i thought she was so funny and beautiful. She has short brown, curly hair, bright blue eyes, glasses and a fit figure.I love her smile it's kind of akward in a cute way. She has a wonderful personality and she is very passionate about what she teaches. She is all around a great person. From the first day i meet her it was like love at first sight. I found myself not wanting her class to end. I would find ways to see her by walking by her class room to see if she is there. I love ehr so much and theres not a day that goes by with out me thinking about her. We have so many things in common. We both love and play hockey, we love history etc. Every time i talk to her i can't help but stare she just so beautiful. So this is my problem. I am in love with her but i don't think she even cares about me at all. there is only a age difference of 15 years but who cares. I love her and i want us to be togather and i truly belive that we are soul mates. I want to tell her how i feel but afaird to because of what she might say in return. Someone please help me! What Should I do?? Email- hockey3355@yahoo.ca same here.. help! - Amy - Feb 28th 2009
Hi,I’m 18, doing dental school and absolutely in love with my cell biology professor. She’s 48, gorgeous, intelligent and funny. She’s divorced and has 2 children (one older than me!!!). I have no idea (what so ever) of what I should do, but I do know if I keep being as interested in cell biology as I am now I’ll probably be invited to become a monitor (since I’m the best student). We talk a lot even mail each other a lot. I’ve already investigated for her and corrected some tests. Don’t misunderstand me, I love biology, but I love her more… I think she’s getting the wrong message, but I no longer have the strength to stay away from her.What to do? have i just . . . - Katy - Feb 25th 2009
hi katy here im 13 14 next mounth and ever since the start of 2007 i have had a crush on one praticular teacher she usta teach me sceince , now we dot have her anymore i always tought i was weird because of this i could never look her straight in the eye and i always get neverous when she talks to me my irish teacher wears the same perfume as her and everytime she walks by i go in to a daze last year i took it a step too far i had an obsession and i knew i was in love with her i soon began to stalk her and self harm i remember i once engraved her intitials into my skin and put a love heart and put my initiatls after it , i know she loves me back and is just to ashamed to admit it this year i have a new scince teacher and i feel that i dont have a as deep obseession as i did i still have an obsession but not a bad one , like i have all of her free classes marked on my timetable and i have were shes going to be marked aswel so i can walk by there going back to my class even if it is out of my way earlier this year me and my best frein were talking about out hot pe teacher and she goes do you have a crush on any teacher i said no and she just replied it think ** ******* is hot and i was like ha i knew it so do i and now we just stalke her in school now i have an crush on my german teacher who i absalutley hated with a passion last year what the hell is happning am i a lesbian and am i attracted to the same type of women i should mentin there all slim blonde hared and blue eyed ? what will i do i can live like this anymore will i tell her xox katy tt
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I can't say how much this relates to me. I'm 13, probably the youngest here, in 8th grade. I have a crush on my teacher from 6th grade. I really used to hate her in 6th grade. I never had lesbian/bi feelings towards anybody until mid 7th grade, and I saw her one day and realized to walk past her just because. Basically, I was showing off. I spent all summer thinking about her, it was crazy. Then this year. All I ever do is think about her. Everyday I get dressed in the morning like I'm going to see her, and I never look bad so I can make a good impression on her if i see her. The only times i really see her are when I'm going to my bus, when she's standing out there with some fellow teachers. But she's not always out there. Today was Friday, and from now on every Friday I have 30 minutes with her in the morning. Today I had her, and it was amazing. She talked to me more than i expected :) And then after that in 4th period when we were handing out carnations for valentines day, I had to go to her classroom to give her her class's box. When I gave it to her, she had this big conversation with me and another teacher down the hall (whom i also have a crush on, not as much) about anything and everything. She still knows my name, and I love it when she says it. Recently, I've been seeing her driving her car behind the bus. But she's married and has a son. :( I think she's 28. my crush ♥ - - Feb 12th 2009
Hey, I have a crush on my dt teacher, He is so nice i joined the class and he was nice to me and for the first few lessons i was thinking he was quite fit. And then its all grew for me since then i lay in bed awake thinking about him and also i love the way he smiles at me he helps me alot with my work and always tells me how i enjoy the lessons and i am well behaved and im always a star in his lessons. I kept thinking he has feelings for me too but im not too sure is he did i just want to wait for a text with him texting me but i dont know how i could leave my number so he gets it. Or how to get his number, I always stare at him whe n he is talking and he stares back at me he is always offering me help and showing me what to do because i miss a few lessons every now and again because of other problems. I cannot wait to do his lessons i hate it when i got other lessons on that day i do not like and refused to do for ages but i will do them if it means i can go to his lessons and i love3 going to them and asking him for help he is always willing to give me help and is always there for me i have not had a talk with him yet about problems he is not the type that would do that and i am always bad in other lessons but always seem to b a star in his lessons. I love it so much i know that there is no chance in the world that we would be together and people say that he sounds gay and acts it but i dont thinks so (even thow i wish he was) i always try to find a way to talk to him but when i do i sometimes fell as if im going red then walk away. He always ticks off my card to say i behaved at the end of the lesson and he always talks to me for like 10 seconds and keeps me hanging around to collect it and always makes sure that everyone else is out of the room . I am due to come off this report card soon but i dont weant to if it means that i can talk to him at the end of the lesson's and that. I also balgged my way of being kicked out of the school so that i could stay there because he is ther i always search his name up on google but find nothing. I just want this to go away even thow i love him to bits and its a feeling that i have never experienced before. Everlasting dream :( - Sarah-LOU - Feb 9th 2009
<b> Hey as most of you all said, its nice to know that wer not alone. I no how you all feel :( Im 15 nd i think im in love with my english teacher i cant stop thinking about her nd its so werid as wen i cum home frm scool i wish i could be bk again and cant wait until the next day to see her again. Its so unfair cuz shes lak sumbody who i get on wif so well but again im to young, shes like 26 nd is defo not lesbian as she has a boyfriend which hurts wen she tlks about him but i just play along nd go awwwwwww miss wen inside im lak nooooooooo ! Its a werid situation to be in as i dont think im a bi as iv never had this feeling before in my life. Everyday i wish i could be holding her in my arms nd i always think to myself mabye sum day it wil be me&her together hip by hip never to be taken apart. But unfortantly this fairlytale isnt looking good but ino 4 sure il always love her and try my best to hint at her but at the same time im not brave enuf to do so :( xxx More - - Jan 29th 2009
i adde da cooment about my irish english teacher. just wanted 2 tell u i have even gone as far as to dedicate a song 2 er!!!! I'm the same - - Jan 29th 2009
I'm 14 and have been in love with my old english teacher sice year 8 (im in year 10 now). When i first met her i hated her, and for most of year 8 tried my best to annoy her, but then i realised that i only did that because i liked her shouting in my face, having one on one time with her in detention. i was really upset in the hloidays after year 8. when i found out i didnt have her in year 9 i was very depressed but soon realised i could see her outside the classroom. in the year 9 summer gholidays i was upset again, but then thought i was finally over her, then i bumped into her in a shop on the last day of the holidays. we had a chat and i could feel old feelings brewing up again. when i found out she wasn't my year 10 teacher i was really upset but i see her everyday now as my group of friends hang out outside her classroom. i also see ehr in asembly every week and at friday break when she is on duty. shes always been nice to me, even though sometimes she can be a bitch to everyone. im in love with her! i love her blacky brown hair, her green eyes and her accent! she has the most amazing irish accent ever!! she has a nice figure and whenever she is walking down the corridor i find myself drawn to her arse or tits. she has a boyfriend though, who is one of my old teachers. he doesnt teach at my school asnymore but it makes me cry to think of them together. she's having an operaation next week and she will be out of school for a month! i dont know what ill do without her there! i wasnt in school today and spent all my time thinking sbout what i was missing out on seeing today, wondering what she was wearing, sometimes she wears skirts and it makes me smile. she always says hi in the corridor and i get all the love signs, weak knees, miss a heart beat, butterflies, cant speak. i try and show off aroyund her. i ho0e her operation goes well and i wish i could tell her how i feel, but i know that will ruin things. i love her with all my heart and yes i am a bisexual female. i know nothing could ever happen as im 14 and she is 29 but ill still have my fantasies. i love her!!! xxxxxxxx hurting - - Jan 11th 2009
i was rather relieved to find i wasn't the only one who was in love with my female teacher. I'm in a situation where I think I've always loved my history teacher. When I first started high school, I got her for history and at first i liked her. But then I started to feel hatred and I don't know why cos she was alway so nice to me. This carried on for a year and a half and then I realised I'd fallen hook, line and sinker for her. I went through months of going over my sexuality, but I don't think i'm a lesbian. Anyway, my 3rd year, I found out she was having an affair with one of the married maths teachers who i've hated, like, always. so that hurt alot and i endured rumours of her being pregnant and everything. Then the summer before my fourth year, the maths teacher had been divorced and they got engaged. I remember finding out through myspace bulletins from classmates and breaking down in tears. I had to go on a walk to calm myself down. For my last two years, I have her for history again, but I'm beginning to think she really is pregnant. I know i have to let go cos if she ever found out, then i know that would be the end. I too have felt connections between me and her but i'm beginning to think it was just my imagination. All i can think about is her. I wonde what she's doing all the time and whenever i see her or speak to her, my heart skips a beat. But in reality, love is the most painful thing i've ever had to face. apologies for the slight length. just needed to share my feelings x i really like him,, i do i do i do... - kate - Jan 2nd 2009
hi,,im just 14 yrs old,and im a sophomore..i really like my english teacher..every time i see him..i feel like in heaven..he has a good voice,nice body and a very handsome man...he is 25 yeas old,,i really like him,so i want to tell him that i love him,but im afraid that he wil reject me coz he have a gf..but i cant stopp thinking about him every time of my life..when think about the time that he will reject me in the future and makes me feel die..i start crying..the tears in my eyes cannot stop falling..do i need to tell him that i really love him and its not only crush i feel about him...our age gap is to long and i dont magine that we will be together coz it hurts me more,but i still love him so so so much...every time we were texting at night i feel i am his gf,,i always give him a gift on xmas,new year on his bday and on valentines day..i really love hm and one could understand that except me..if you wat to give me an advice please email me at (princess_jeray@yahoo.com) im glad if yu could help.. thanks.!! Great website - Jaquiline - Dec 27th 2008
I think this is a great wbsite to help us to knw more about our problem, n we can share experience each other MR.BLAHA - Alyssa - Dec 20th 2008
Hey i just turned 14 and im in lovd with mr.blaha a 29 old teacher help me i cant stop thinking about him i kinda like my pe teacher - - Dec 16th 2008
im 16 and she is like i think in her 20's, she is so fit, i dont think she is a lesbian and i dont think i am either, but i dunno i really like her, she is so nice, and whenever she see's me she will be very niceand will gimme that kinda look that i will start thinkin this is hope, i fink howeva she has a b/f, now ive let skool i cant stop thinkin bout her i wanna jus go nd see her hot face again,damn she is hot. thinking about her so much - Grace - Dec 13th 2008
Since the beginning of the year, there were rumors about my physics teacher being lesbian. And it didnt actually surprise me, but i got interested in her. Im 16 and she's around early 30s but she looks like she's my age. These days.. I don't know why, but I've been thinking about her so much... In class.. in the bus.. at home.. before sleep.. Yes, i know. I'm kind of obsessed. I even try to find her on internet. Try to know as mucohh as possible. In my last laboratory repport I gave in, i drew her name in the back and she acutally liked it! :D hehe And i also took one of her pictures in the internet and photoshopped it and i send it to her by the school email. The next morning, she stopped me in the hallway to say hi and she told me she liked what i did. It surprised me so much. I thought she was going to ignore it. And the weid thing is that I dreamt about her last night that i kissed her. Seeing her today really made my day. i stayed after school and told her i had to stay because i needed help in my laboratory reports. I actually did, but not as much as i asked for. We talked a bit and it really make me .. more than happy :) I really dont know what to do. I have a girlfriend right now... and i guess i should try ignoring my feelings for the teacher. I know I can't do anything with her. Even if she actually had feelings for me, I don't think it would work out.. Anyway, if you're in the same situation as me, feel free to e-mail me :) why - J - Dec 11th 2008
why are you all teanagers? im 22 and always fall for my teachers...i don't know why i think this is really scary cuz im an adult and still a lesbian!! becuz of my weak spot for teachers i learned to get over it in a couple of months.. if im to be a reacher i hope all of the girls out there who has feelings for me would tell me how they feel!! i think i'll die young cuz im always surpressing myself.. i love my sexuality but it is driving me crazy!! im in love with my teacher - jaz - Dec 6th 2008
I think Im the youngest to respond to this. Im 14 turning 15 next month and im in love with my english teacher, atleast I think Im in love. When ever she touches me I feel like as if she brings me life. When i dont see her im like really upset and I will start to cry. I want to tell her that Im in love with her but I know i cant. I dont know what to do because every "I LOVE YOU" I get hurt because I dont think she could ever love me as much as i love her. I NEED HELP please e-mail me at darkrainbowlady@yahoo.com with advice In the same position - - Nov 28th 2008
I'm at a stage in life now where I'm trying to work out if I still love my teacher or not. I loved her from year 8 til just recently, but that's the thing I don't know if I AM truly over her. I recently started university and keeping busy meant I didn't think of her so much. But now I keep getting dreams of her again, same old same old, usually involving me seeing her vividly or searching for something connected with her. I sent her a normal letter today to let her know how I'm doing (I'm studying German and French - she was my German teacher), unlike the other 3 letters I sent her while at school telling her I loved her to pieces. This was a total mistake...she didn't seem to do much after the first one, but then she told another teacher when she received the first. I told friends about my situation and got backstabbed beyond belief. Advice to all you guys would simply be to enjooy what you have with your teachers and don't tell them no matter how much you want to. This is for your sake cause I don't want you to be bullied like I was. Still ... - - Nov 21st 2008
Helloo wrote on here about 6months ago about my science teacher. since then litrally nothing has changed i dont get as upset abot it all now tho . she said hello the other day but wheneva i try and say anything it comes out wrong so i just walked off ... Will Talk Again soon Lovee xxxx Love ? - - Nov 13th 2008
i am only 15 years old but i am in love with one of my teachers from school. She is the most caring perons i have ever known she is so beautiful also. I walk past her room everyday to see if she is in just so i can talk to her as lunch. I buy her, her favourite sweetie all the time cause i love to here it when she calls me her favourite pupil. I still get butterflies whenver i see or talk to her. I cant get her off my mind but so some reson i dont want. Am leaving in 2 years and have no idea what i am going to do. It's Me Again - - Nov 11th 2008
Hi all, On Oct. 16th, I wrote about my ex-Spanish teacher, but I wrote it in such a rush. I was doing homework and other things. Now I want to express everything because it's slowly eating me away. If someone was to ask me what do I feel about Senora, I would say she's a very nice person. In fact, I have had that question asked before and I did give the following answer. But that answer is not enough, Senora...is such a sweet woman, yet at the same time, she's not. One of the reasons I feel this way about her is because she's real. She's not a fraud teacher that smiles at every student. She does smiles, but she teases you and bothers you and makes you feel like she cares about you. It's all mished mashed into one roll. I feel at times that I hate her. Sometimes it is because of things she says and other times it's just me. Underneath that so-called hate lies my flower of affection. Because the truth is, I feel affection for her. I love her and I'm so glad I can say it without anyone judging me on this site. When she does talk to me, I can feel my cheeks get warm and I get all flabbergasted. I smile and continue talking, I sometimes wonder if she notices my cheeks turning red. But all in all, I will always remember Senora, even when I leave high school and move on. I'll remember her when I get a job and probably move elsewhere. I'll remember her after years and years, so long she probably no longer exists; to me, she will always exist. She's my crush. Thanks to all of you for making me feel so comfortable to express my feelings. I'm glad I'm not alone. Same Feelings - Kelly - Nov 8th 2008
Hi All, I am 34 and have had similar experiences. I woul dlove to talk more with others. feel free to drop me an email. Kelly love makes the world go around - sunny - Oct 24th 2008
I am a 45-year-old woman, and I love the beautiful, deep, passionate feelings that all of you have expressed here. What poetry! Unrequited (or impossible) love is the driving force behind most poetry and art and .. everything. How sweet (and brave!) all of you are ... to allow yourselves to feel these things ... and to express them here ... as impossible as they may be. And what sweet strength and wisdom you seem to possess (in spite of your youth, and all of the confusion). I will tell you this: There is never an "answer" to any of this. But it (the sleepless nights, the confusion, the missed heartbeats) is truly what makes the world go around. You are all wise (and very strong!) to understand that you cannot act on, or openly express, these feelings (when you are still underage and your "desired one" is an adult). You don't want to invite rejection (which the object of your desire MUST do at this point), and also, you don't want to hurt that person, if they were to give in to their own mutual desires -- and thereby destroy their loves. But when you are an adult -- you can (maybe, under the right circumstances) take the risk of expressing these things. After all, there was no great love realized, ever, without bravery and risk. But know this: Your feelings are not only "normal," but quite beautiful. These intense feelings, however painful, are the color and depth of life. I feel them still! Here is a beautiful poem about a forbidden love: http://www.sacred-texts.com/hin/bilhana/bil01.htm I send kisses and love to all of you, and a thousand wishes, that (in your lifetimes) you experience poetry and art and passion and romance and .... most of all ... burning erotic love.
-Sunny Wow. I love every single one of you. - Kris - Oct 24th 2008
Wow. This is ridiculous. How comforting is it to know that others feel the same way you do! I am 17 years old (a freshman in college) female and I am in the exact same situation with my English teacher from high school. Only, she has expressed feelings for me to.It all started in 9th grade. I was going through the most difficult time of my life, and she was always there to support and encourage me. We instantly felt a connection with each other, a mutual bond. Over the next two years, we developed our instant connection into a deep, mutual friendship. We spent so much time together, inside and outside of class. She would play music for me (what a brilliant pianist), we would exchange CDs, go to fun places with other friends and classmates,4 she would take me mountain bike riding, we would go to concerts (we have a connection to each other through music especially), she would invite some students over for games, etc etc. Basically, she wasn't a typical teacher and was well-respected and well-liked because of it. She treated each and every one of her students like they were adults. However, I was the only one she had a deep, personal connection with. My relationship with her was unlike any other relationship she had with her other students. She never spent as much time with her other students as she did with me. (Out of all of her students in her past five years of teaching, I was the only one she had given a graduation present to). Our bond was always more than we could put to words. (She is actually really close to all of my family. She has even gone on two summer vacations with us in the past two years.)Anyway, I have developed such strong feelings for her - ever since the very beginning. Because of this, a lot of her actions and the things she told me were really misleading. We always told each other we loved one another. Not face to face (although that has happened from time to time), but through notes or cards - always when we saw that the other one was upset or having a bad day or something. We just spent so much time together. Some days we would actually plan "quality time" with each other (during an off-period at school or after school) and go to some shop to have tea and play game boards or something. I have had so many conversations with her, in which we both shared very personal information regarding our own intimate lives. We developed a mutual connection to each other that, at times, seemed like it was much, much deeper. She has always had a boyfriend (three in the past four years that I have known her) and, from what I know, has always been straight. I, too, have always had boyfriends (four in the past four years that I have known her). But because we both have boyfriends, it is just impossible to tell what our feelings for each other mean. Our deep, non-traditional, student-teacher bond just became normal for us. I always feel like there was something more between us, something subtle yet unbelievably strong. It was in every “hello,” “thank-you,” “I love you,” hug, touch on the shoulder, wave of the hand, etc. After developing a connection with her for the past four years, it was impossible to tell exactly what every action or every word meant. These feelings were just so unbelievably hard to deal with that I, often times, had to pull away from her (not see or talk to her as much as I usually do). Just until the feelings subsided for a while. I did this a lot during my senior year, and, because of it, we didn't spend as much time with each other towards the end of the school year. Never did she know why I pulled away from her so much.In fact, on our most recent family vacation (last summer, about two months ago after I had already graduated), I pulled away from her and ignored her so much that she was really upset and hurt about it. She started crying on the boat and, knowing that I had upset her, asked if she wanted to talk about it. So. We left the public area and went to some quite place to talk (this was in the middle of the night while everyone else was sleeping). The first thing she told me, after a minute of her crying in silence, was, "I just don't feel like you love me as much as you used to." Of course, I told her that is was actually quite the opposite and that I was very sorry for hurting her. Knowing that it wasn't fair to her - me pulling away and hurting her without giving her a reason why - I had to tell her the truth. (Something I never thought I'd do.) So. I told her that I had developed feelings for her, ever since 9th and 10th grade, and that I just couldn't deal with them (we both have boyfriends) so I had to distance myself from her. Just to keep my sanity. Then, after a couple moments of silence, she went on and told me a few stories where she liked people she wasn't "supposed" to - older step-siblings and a woman, whom she had gone camping with earlier that year. She told me that having a crush on a woman (this was before she started dating the boyfriend she has now) was something she really had to think about and determine what that exactly meant about herself. Then, she asked me, "What do you want me to be to you now?" And, knowing that this was a nearly impossible situation to be in because we both had boyfriends, I told her that I just want her to be one of my closest friends - just like she has always been. However, I explained to her that my feelings for her do keep rushing back and that I have to pull away from her when that happens. Then, she said, “You know…I felt like I knew in a way…Because I think I felt it too…It was always when when you would pull away…” At this point, I was so confused that I had no idea what she meant or, worse, what to say back. Then, she told me, “You know…I can’t…I just can’t explain it. It’s there, I just can’t find the words for it.” I told her I had no way of explaining it either, even though I was still unsure about what she had just told me seconds before. Did “I think I felt it too” mean that she loved me too? Or was she referring to me pulling away and that she could tell? In a way, I felt like, because of our current, impossible circumstances, she and I have deep and mutual feelings for each other. We just cannot do anything about it and so, at the end of the conversation, we promised each other that we would always love one another. Now, again, this is so unbelievably confusing because I don’t know if she meant loving each other in a way that friends do or loving each other like actual people do, or both.Now, because I am more than an hour away, I don’t talk to or see her nearly as much as I used to. We still have boyfriends and have actually hang out as two couples before, but I just don’t know how she really feels about me, or what our whole conversation during that vacation meant. I don’t even know if it is possible to be with her due to our circumstances now. But I just wish I knew how she really felt and that we had words to explain exactly what we have in our relationship. I mean, I always wonder how the situation that night would have played out if neither of us had boyfriends at the time. (I can almost assure you that we would have kissed each other that night.) And, most importantly, should I say anything more to her now?Can anyone help here? Is anyone in a similar situation, where the feelings appear to be mutual? What do you do? What should you do? Please. Any opinion/comment would help here.Anyway, that’s my story. I apologize for the length, but it was something I had to get out. In writing. For the first time. Thanks to those of you who read it.I wish each and every one of you a way to express, rather than repress, your feelings. Live. And be. It’s not the worst thing in the world. Just be happy. K In love with my dance teacher - Karolina - Oct 23rd 2008
I'm Karolina and 20 y/o, my female dance teacher is 45 y/o. She was my dance teacher at high school, I saw her everyday in and inbetween classes. We talked about everything (secrets etc), watched films, cuddled... I was in love and she saw me as a friend. I have done very obvious moves on her and she never backed away.. I think she liked it. I used to feel her up when hugging, smell her hair/neck, stroke my lips on her neck... give her flirtatious looks in class... I even gave her a loong kiss on her cheek once... I think she knew about my feelings for her, but since she's much older and my teacher she can't be with me. When I told her about my feelings she shut me out.:( I asked her once again for a ride home and this time she said no.. "I don't think that would be a good idea" she said and looked at me with sad eyes. I miss her so much... I haven't seen her in 1-2 years and I still love her sooo much... does anyone know if this teacher/student law has a time limit or something? Cuz she's not my teacher anymore but when I saw her a year ago she seemed to keep a distance to me.:( (I know she's not homophobic.. it must be she don't want to give me any false hope.) i love my english teacher (jiejie) - nguyen - Oct 21st 2008
Hi every1!! I have the same problem like u . I'm 16 n I love my english teacher . She about 34 n she looks like a man . I know that i shouldn't love her n i wanna stop it . last time i told with her that i love her in Chinese ( she 1/2 Chinese, 1/2 indonesia) but then she star to laughing n think that i lier . Everytime i c her , i feel that my heart really hurt, i cried many time just because missing her . WO AI NI Jiejie Angg Wow, This is funny... - XtHinkingX - Oct 17th 2008
I really didnt think that anyoen was going to feel like i did. But that was in the past. i was in love with my old health teacher. HE WAS WOW. Then i saw his girlfriend, and i fell deep. BUT we changed numbers and everything. i still have it, but we grew much apart. and i realized it was just LUST. Love ...xoxo - - Oct 16th 2008
hi ok i have the same problem. i am an 18 yr old girl and i am in love with my english teacher. i jsut graduated in june and now i am in college, i still stop by the school jsut to see her, i love her soo muhc ...i have had dreams about her, like we would be making out and stuff, and when i see her i feel hot and happy and excited, my fash blushes and yeh, and i hug her everytime i see her now before i leave, i want to tell her hw i feel soo bad it is killing me, my friend and i wrote her a note on facebook about how we think she is hot n stuff, and i dun know if i should jsut tell her how i feel or jsut wait till i graduate collge.. she si 28 and i 18, i dun no if it is legal or not for me to confess to her but i really want to, soo bad i want to let her know how i feel, when i wwas in english class i would too glance down her shirt, she has really bigg boobs lol but anyways and i would always walk by her class room everyday and wave or smile to her, at one point we had like a 10 seconds stare wheere we jsut started at eachothr, and i ave caught her looking down my top and she has cught me lloking down her top and i do pretendt to need help soo she would come over and lean over me and put her hand on my hand and then if i were to jsut turn my head a lil bit then my face would be right in her brests, and i have wanted to jsut turn my head soo bad, i think i love her but i know i am sexually attracted to her...oh and by the way if you have not noticed i am bi and i think i feel lust and a lil bit of love toward her ...everyone thinks she si sexist teacher in school and i jsut want to have a one on one convo with her and tell her how i feel, but i could write for ever soo i am goignt o stop now lol thnx help what do i do I'm not alone - - Oct 16th 2008
I'm so glad to see that I am not alone in this issue. I thought I was a freak, what I feel for my Spanish teacher is not love, but a different sensation. It all started last year, at the beginning of the year, I hated her. She seemed so annoying, but one day...I began to think differently. I thought she was pretty and she was sweet and I could talk to her. That day at lunch, I had the best conversation with her. From that point on...I had that sensation. It's the weirdest sensation, but I can't stop talking about her. Everytime someone says they have Spanish, I ask them who do they have. If I hear her name, I become very happy. This year however, things are kind of rough. We don't talk anymore and we've grown apart, much to my displeasure. I wish we could have one more conversation together. I'm glad I'm not alone. i know how you all feel =( - - Oct 14th 2008
i am in virtually the same situation...i am completely in love with a teacher (39 but looks much younger...) and im almost 18...there's another problem. she is my coach. i've always looked up to her but last year i began to have feelings for her and they are getting progressively stronger...im really glad other people are dealing with the same thing...and don't worry..i dont plan on ever telling her lol!!!! in love with my PE teacher for about 8months now - - Oct 12th 2008
Hiya, im a 14 year old girl and i've been in love with my PE teacher for about 8months now, she is 28. I'm not alone though, my best friend feels the same way, we would do EVERYTHING to just talk to her. We joke and ask her were shes off on the weekend, she tells us and thats were we go on the weekend with just that little bit of hope we'll see her. She has a boyfriend of 5 years and it looks pretty serious :( We saw them in town yesterday and last night we thought about her more than ever. I even know her number plate off by heart, when ever we see a car that look like hers, ours hearts skip a beat. But theres no way we can tell her how we feel!
Can anyone help? - i will - - Anonymous - Sep 29th 2008
Someday, after my high school graduation I will confess to her my feelings. It's better if you let them know. Maybe they feel the same way, we never know. Anyways, I will let my old teacher know about these feeling I have for her...after high school XD. But it's just i don't think I don't have the guts to do so. ={ I am just scared, that she'll be scared at me and we'll drift apart...I hope that she notices my feelings for her than saying it to her face, i think she does but she never mentions it. She'll probably thinking why is this girl visiting me in this all boy's school. :P I need advices please! HELPPPP :P Question - - Sep 29th 2008
These stories sound extremely familiar, I've been trying to figure out what's wrong with me :( Question for everyone/anyone: How is your relationship with your actual parents or at least your mother, and were any of you adopted? Please help me I'm in a different sort of problem but it is related to homosexuality. - Anonymous - Sep 27th 2008
Please Help Me :'( Okay so here's the story, in grade 8 I used to be in another class then a strange teacher came in (another grade 8 teacher) was talking to my teacher, then they made me and some of my classmates stay in for recess because they were going to discuss something with us. They told us that we had to move to the other teacher's class because there were too much people in my old class. I did not want to move. On my first day of my class with my new female teacher, my first impression was i thought she was not pretty and she dressed pretty weird. When I started to get to know her, she would ask me to do stuff for her, she calls me her reincarnation in sports because we were both athletic. When she would always ask me to do favours i kind of noticed that i had a crush on her, and i always want to go to school everday because of her, and i studied really hard to not fail any of my subjects because it would be embarrassing for me if i failed in front her. I really love her, when we went to a class trip before my graduation, she put my seat in the coach bus, right behind her, so she would talk to me and asking me if i wanted to listen to her ipod. I also liked showing of in front of her and i love seeing her pleased. Some of my friends are confronting me that she was either a lesbian or a tomboy, and she liked me (crush). When we went to Ottawa for 3 days...she waited for me outside the bus to help her carry her bags to her hotel room...and when i agreed to help her..everyone i mean EVERYONE of my classmates were staring at me, dirty looks, winks, smiles...i felt myself blush..at the same time i was quite happy that she picked me to help her out and weird. When we graduated she moved to another school it was all boys...although for the passed 2 years i havent seen her. Now i am in grade 10 my history teacher looks exactly like her and my history prof. reminded me of her...so i was curious i went to my teacher's school that she was now teaching in and i visited her..and she invited me to watch her football practices. i miss her terribly...i do love her but i dont want to ruin her life..if she does have feelings for me and confesses them to me after i graduate i will confess my feelings too. :{ Still :( - - Sep 13th 2008
Hi Its been a while since i have writen on here and since then alot has happened! first i told my pe teacher who i get on well with and she said she had the same problwm when she was my age and then my science teacher found out! and this is the one i have been thinking about every second of the day . i was dreading the school holidays and cryed everynight cause i just wanted to go back to school and see her then when we finally did get back to school i wasnt in any of her classes ... i walk around randomly at lunch and break looking for her and am late for most of my lesons cause i try looking in the room she is teaching in .. i stayed behind after school the other day and it was empty with just a few teachers in and i was leaning aginst the wal on my phone when she came past and i shouted HELOOO .. i didnt no what else to do! she just looked me up an down and gave a smile another time i saw her with my freind and she looked at me again :) i no nothing can ever happen but it just hurts when you no a person doesnt feel the same for u as u do for them.. i ask every one "hey whos your scince teacher" then if they say they have my old one for there teacher i look at what room its in and what time of the day so i can walk past it . i could write forever about this but i need to stop at one point. i still have this feeling for her and hoping it will go away but it does make me want to go to school everyday but i stil think about her in my classes and end up doing hardly any work . i will write in a month or to to say if anything has changed .. thanks so much for making this site! it lets u get your feelings out and no that some other people feel the same as u xxx Help!!! - - Sep 10th 2008
im in a simlar sort of proplam. im realy nervous around my new form teacher because he is male and he goes out with my old english teacher. everytime i look at him i go bright red or do somthing wrong. im so uncomftable around him. i NEED some advice. :( love hurts - - Sep 7th 2008
i am female in year 11 and i havent had my teacher since year 9 but i am still in love with her she is beautifull and funny in a sarcastic way i always used to look through the gaps between her blouse for a glimpse of her chest. but the wierd thing is she or no one else would ever guess i felt this way as i dont act like i like her! i used to be really rude to her and i act really stupid and immature when im around her. i used to love it when she sent me out the classroom as when she'd come outside to talk to me it was just me and her, id still act rude but in my head was just thinkin wow. i used to act dumb about the work so shed lean over me and help me i used to breathe in her scent and feel a rush of exitement when her hand brushed mine. iv kept all my old year 8 and 9 books and spend time looking at the comments she used to write about my work and studying her handwritng. i love her black glossy hair and her bright blue eyes and her amazing smile. i go to the hall every friday at breaktime when shes on duty just to see her! and i muck around when im in ther and get into trouble so she'd come over and shout at me but i love it! im obssesd with her i spend all the time thinking about her and every night dream about her i downloaded her favourtie song on my phone and listen to it over and over she is the only female iv ever felt attracted to and still love boys. :( love hurts Anonymous - - Sep 5th 2008
I'm feeling the same way about a teacher in my school. Last year I was crazy about her. Thought about her all the time and looked forward to every class I would have with her. I walked past the classroom so many times just to get a glimpse of her. On a few occasions we shared this stare i don't know how to describe it but it felt amazing. I know i'm not a lesbian but am beginning to wonder if i am bisexual. At the end of the school year i dreaded the summer holidays as I knew it would be a matter of months before I would see her. The whole summer I thought about her, i tried to move on, i now have a boyfriend who i'm also crazy about. But the thought of her never left me. When we got back to school this month, I was so excited at the thought of seeing her again. But she wasn't there.. I don't know if she's going to be teaching this year and its tearing me apart. I think the main thing for being so obsessed is because of the way she made me feel when I talked to her.. this happiness, like i was important. I don't know if its love or infactuation. All I do know is that she's not around and I miss her more and more everyday... For everyone out there feeling the same way.. i know it's hard.. but someday you'll find that one who makes your heart smile and you do the same for them. Just remember this happened for a reason and it has helped you grow and mature. I think that no one who feels this way is weird.. it's all a way for us to grow up. ~~ - - Aug 22nd 2008
Same here. I'm a female and my teacher is a female too. I love her, i really do. Whatever she does affects my mood of the day. If i see her talking to another girl(her pet), i'll get jealous and when she smiles at me, i would just walk away, not bothering her. I see her everyday in school(except for the days that she's not in school). However, i missed her even she's right in front of me. I don't get it, i know we are both females and moreover, she's 30++ years older than me. For what i think, i feel that i am just treating her as my mother. She always shower me with love and never fails to show concern to me. I will be leaving school this year, and i'm sure that i would definitely miss her badly. I want her hug from her, i've been yearning for her hug since the starting of the year. I want to tell her that i love her, but i'm afraid that we would draw apart after saying that. I used to hate her last year, but i just couldn't control myself to love this year when she's not my teacher anymore. Is this the meaning of absence makes the heart grow fonder? All of my friends said that i'm abnormal. Because she's just a teacher and there's no reasons for me to love her so much. But i'm just simply obsess with her. I can't help it, i can't control my feelings. After much consideration and thinking, i think that i'm still normal. I still like boys and i'm confident that i just treated her as my mother. We're all in this together - - Aug 20th 2008
It's great to know that we are not alone... I have been in love (or whatever it is) with my now 27-year old teacher for a good three years... and it's so horrible! i had her from year seven onwards, and i reckon a week after she became my teacher i realised i thought about her too much, or enjoyed the classes more than others. i haven't got her for any subjects this year, and i can't stand it. Like everyone else, i make up stupid excuses to walk past her room or talk to her... i hate going a day without seeing her... but the worst part is she's basically besties with another girl. it sucks seeing them together all the time- i wish i was in that position. i'm in year ten , that means i only have two years left with her... i want to tell her but i know for sure she doesn't feel the same way... she just got a boyfriend! but i just want to let her know how effing amazing she is to me. My story... - - Jul 18th 2008
I really understand what everyone here has written. I'm female, 16, and completely head over heals for my 25 year old science teacher. My feelings for her became really strong when she went to hospital last year, and the saying, "you never realise how much you miss someone until they're acutally gone", struck me. The first lesson she returned, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and ever since then I've spent every day of my life thinking about her. Even at school I try to make up the most pathetic excuses to try and see her, or even just walk past her to say Hi and get a smile from her.. I even did my work experience with her because of how much I wanted to see her and build on the strong relationship we already have. I've also bought her tons of gifts in the past year, and given her countless hugs. =] Today was my last day of year 10, and just thinking about 6 weeks without her makes me feel sick inside. I really want to come back and do 6th form at my current school, but I fear the only reason for that is because of my teacher. My teacher & I have a really close friendship at the moment, and we consider each other as best friends. The only thing in our way of communicating outside of school is the law, and I really can't wait until the end of next year, because we can finally be friends and meet up etc. Of course I'm not going to confess anything yet. Not until my school life is over anyway... We have both promised to each other we'll meet up loads once i've left education & hopefully stay as close as we are. Maybe from then on i'll tell her everything... But my advice to anyone is leave everything until AFTER school, during it is too risky. Just stay as friends for now. What Can i Do ? x - - Jul 14th 2008
Hi. Lately Iv Not Been Eating Properly and skipping meals all the time and crying in class the worse thing is i have been really angry with my freinds ! its all to do with my science teacher im a girls an yea, so is she i have never felt like this in my life about another girl! i though i was going mental or something and i thought i was a freak! when i was frst put in her class we didnt get on at all i tried to make her angry at me cause she didnt scare me and i was showing off but the last month i'm constantly crying and i told my mum witch i dont no if that was the right thing to do because she always is worrying about me . i look for her break and lunch and when i cant find her it makes me really upset but when i do i dont even talk 2 her! my eting is getting better i no i cant handle it unmaturly so i try my best. i Do get atracted to boys as well but i dont think im bi or anything because its unusuall for me to feel like this over a girl please help me im young and dont really no how to hanndle this she has a bf! thankss xxxx Make it stop - Help - Jul 10th 2008
Hi i really need help...i really dont know what is going on in my head....as a said earlier (my title was help) i was in love (or what i thought was love) with my teacher...i wont go into details becuase i have said earlier. anyway to get the gist of it i was in love with my teacher and we used to give eachother the look...it fealt like she would single me out infront of everyone and even make me stand up infront of the class and talk about a random thing for 2 minutes as a punishment for talking...she would of course choose what i had to talk about, that was the most imbarasing...standing infront of all of my peers talking about something i had no idea about...and then when we were alone she was the nicest person, asking me how i am and what i am doing on the weekend.....i then learned i was going into a different class with a different teacher i was so gutted when my name was read out. we hen had a 7 week holiday and after 1 month i started to not thing of her constantly...then i drove past a place with her car in the drive. it was her house because she was unpacking some stuff from the boot of the car (shopping bags) i then couldnt get her out of my head...i finally started to get her out of my head wheni started in year 11, we had a new teacher start that year and she was absolutely stunning, i didnt want to feel the way i did about the previous teacher so in my head i started to list bad points about her in my head. her hair colour, her eye colour, her taste in clothes and her accesent...eventhough there was nothing wrong with it....i have totally fell for this personn when i see them i still get butterflies..... after i had taken my exams i would try and find reasons to go back to school and see her... e.g here is that dvd you wanted to burrow...or here is that dvd you lent me...and purposely 'forgot' to put the disk in it... i have thought i was in love with 2 teachers before that, one in primary school and the second in secondary school...thought they were both male... i really dont know what is wrong with me.....why do i keep getting thease feelings for people who are unobtinable.... i would do anything for the one i currently love (the other 3 people i didnt feal as strongly about as i do this teacher) i would get arrested for doing something stpid if i thought for one second she would smile... i would even egt in the way of a bullet if it would mean saving her life i know it sounds stupid but thats where i am right now.. am i normal to have had crushes/ been in love or indeed in love with teachers? why do i always fall for teachers and not students... and another thing i even went to 6 form to be able to see that teacher every day.. am i normal?? anonymous cassie again - meh!!!! - Jun 20th 2008
rite ive wrote on here before about my english teacher and i still love her to bits i email her allways and i dilibretely go past her room so i can see her but whenever i talk to her i go bright red like a tomato
and when i see her my heart skips a beat
im in year 10 now in i dont wanna leave skool ill propa miss her :(
LOVE!!!!! - - May 28th 2008
i am in love with my female teacher too, i am female too. i am 18 and she is 27, and i have her for english, and it really sucks that i am leaving in june to go to college, i really want to stay here and be with her. when i see her in the halls she says says hi to me and smiles, she is soo beautiful and smart and funny and relly popualar. i really want to tell her how i feel becasue it is killing me inside, i do dream of her... everynight actually and i jsut want to go up to her and tell her how i feel, but if she kissed me i would not back down. i am pretty sure she si bi or something because the way she looks at me cause one time i i was talking to her and she was looking into my eyes,when i looked down i caught her in the corner of my eye looking at my chest and that jsut turned me on, i don't know what do to do, i get happy and butterlfys in my belly and nervous all at the same time when i see he and i don't know what do to do i think she feels the same i don't know but want to find out.... what should i do, should i ask her or jsut write her a letter and give it to her at prom, beacsue i love this girl and i want to be really close freinds with her and jsut don't know how to tell her that, what should i do same story! - Abby Brown - May 23rd 2008
Hey, I've got a crush this year on my female english teacher,i'm 15:she's 25....... I think it's more admiration than other things,but i had a dream of her and we were really close in it.I'm not gay! I really love boys...!!!! XD She's so clever and cool :) I don't think that my feelings are love but just admiration for this amazing woman. Hope it's helped! Abby xoxoxo Teachers - Di - May 22nd 2008
This year...I felt inlove with my English teacher.When I saw her for the first time I said on my mind "Look!She is so beautiful,isn't she?" :).Even I have to buy a present for her for Christmas.every year with our class we exchange some presents.For example:we start to pull little list where was written our names.Example:Viktoria have to buy a present to Nicky but NIcky have to buy a present to Angelo like some that :).Anyway,when I bought her christmas present she was very happy that I have to buy her present I think she likes me :) but it wasn't that ;( Recently I have stopped thinking about her and I felt inlove with other teacher :) She has a long black broken hair and she teaches sports :) but she don't teach in our class :).When she saw me for the first time she said me"You're so sweet.What's your name?"I smiled at her and said my name.Then she said"That's a very nice name.I like it." :)When I back from school I just was lying on my bed listening music and think about her words :).I can't believe she told me this :).It's so nice isn't it? :).So when I see her I every time smile at her and I think she loves me because this was in the begining in the year.And today if I saw it I say to her "I love you" and I don't think she will be sad if I told you I'm sure that she will happy because somebody thinks about her every day and night! :) That's it! :) help - - May 19th 2008
Hey, like everyone else on here i know what you are going through! I am female and have left school a couple of weeks ago i only have to return to do my exams. the problem starts here. at the start or your 10 i met a teacher who i instantly felt a connection to. she taught me english i really got on with her. i could stay up all night if i was thinking of her and most of the time unless i was with her i was oblivious to everything that happened around me becuase i couldnt get her out of my head. i started questioning how i felt about her at home is was a mental wreck. i had never experienced fealings like thease and i was scared that i wasnt normal. I am quite popular at school and if i ever told anyone at school i would be a laughing stock. i realised i had a crush! i didnt do anything about it but i started to become all nervous around her and whenever i would see her i couldnt take my eyes off her. everytime i saw her my heart would skip a beat. i would hand in homework late on the odd occasion so she would have to chase me for it, just so i could talk to her or see her just for that one minute. i also couldnt stop listening to soppy love songs on my ipod and staying in my room laying on my bed thinking about her. we didnt speak as much because i was always so nervous becuase i liked her so much. and she would give me wierd looks. i started to get paranoid and think that she hated me. i even tried to convince my self that i hated her and acted to my friends like i hated her. becuase i thought to myself that if i hated her she would hate me and the feeling that had started to control my life would soon go it didnt work, because it was approching the last week of year 10 we had to be split into different groups. i was gutted at the time but i can now see that it was for the best. i know when you are going through it that it feals that you can not go on any longer because what you are feeling is so strong and it phisically hurts everytime you have to spend time apart but it gets easier in time. i went into a different class and as time has gone by where i dont see her everyday and i can honestly say that i dont feal as strongly as i did before i know it hurts but give it time and you will get through it and find someone elso 1 piece of advise though. NEVER UNDER ANY CURCUMSTANCE TELL THE TEACHER HOW YOU FEEL, IT WILL MAKE IT AWKWARD BETWEEN YOU BOTH AND IF IT IS NOT HANDLED CORRECTLY THE TEACHER CAN LOSE THEIR JOB - would you really want that to happen to someone you care about. trust me time is a healer its a cleche but it is true! i hope i have helped Teacher - :) - May 15th 2008
I'm female and i've just left year eleven to go to college. I have had the same teacher for a subject throughout my time at secondary school, and I have to say I've grown attached to her. I think about her everyday, and I dream about her too. I can't get her out of my mind! I'm confussed about what I feel towards her, I don't feel attracted to her physically... well I sort of do, I don't love her as in a sexual way, it is more of a motherly way. And to quote from a comment above, I wouldn't back away if she kissed me. I don't know how I feel sometimes. I didn't realise I had these feelings for her until a few weeks before I was due to leave. This made me feel even worse about the situation because I never made the most of her. The first time I met her, in year seven I knew there was something there. But a few weeks before I was due to leave, I figured out what I felt towards her. Now I can't stop thinking about her. I decided to go to college because I hated my previous school. I didn't have that many friends so college would be a good place to have a fresh new start and make new friends. I wish I didn't now, I want to stay at my old school with her forever. I do have a last opperatunity with her, my GCSE exams. But she is going to be a moderater. I'm worried that instead of doing my exams, i'm going to be gawping at her instead. I was thinking about plucking up the courage to talk to her after a exam. But I couldn't do that... I'm too shy and she will think i'm some weird lesbian reject. cassie - samantha - Mar 7th 2008
im so glad iv found this website this has helped me so much im in year 10 at high school and im 15. It started in year 9 when i started to have feelings for my engalish teacher her name is Casandra she has the most georgus blond hair ever i go past her room just to see if she's there i realy love her but she's obviusly straight i know it sounds sad but i dream about her every night i canot get her out of my head and i cry myself to sleap most nights thinking about her and how i can never be with her. what can i do ??? admiration? - - Mar 7th 2008
I too am leaving my school this year and its difficult becasue the only reason that could possibly make me want to stay behind is my teacher. I think and hope that in my situation I really have just confused admiration with love because although i have no problem whatsoever when dealing with different sexualities, my family only accepts one. At first I felt the same as some of you, deep feelings of always wanting to be beside her, and when she smiled at you it put you in a happier place. I always wanted hugs from her but would never ask, and sometimes i'd hang around after school in the foyer so that when she comes out of the office i could just have a few minutes to talk to her. Lat year i used to see her alot more as she taught me many subjects this year i hradly see her except for maybe afterschool on teh occasion. I still want to be around her as much as ever and i don't think any of my feelings have dissapeared i just think i realize that shes more of a mother to me than anything else. I want her to remain in my life and be there when i graduate, i want her to be the one to come and watch me when i'm acting or come see me in highschool once in awhile. But all in all i believe it is just a deep sense of admiration that is very highly confused. I love her to pieces but even if i did like her more i would never do anything to risk her career and most of all family who i have grow to love adn care for as well. Even still at times it is really hard to determine where that line is, when i see her i'm always smiling no matter how bad the day might be going, and she never has to talk to me about my problems to make me feel better, just being there is enough. Whenever she see's me she will always smile and she has the most amazing smile around, and her eyes are one of a kind. Their those eyes that just seem to see straight through you but are soft and warm too. I know there have been times where i have been mody even to her but still she makes the attempt to cheer me up and see whats wrong. And if she knows i am mad at her the guilt in her eyes is enough to make me want to cry for being mad at her in teh first place. Ahh but i've written wayyy too much now to sum things up she is an extremely attractive, hardworking, sensitve, caring person. I love her more than life itself and would gladly give mine up to save her. but in the end i do believe it is a heightened sense of admiration then love. Love? - - Mar 5th 2008
I am also afraid i am in love with my female teacher (she is 30 i am 18). i hope it is just admiration, as she is everything i want to be - passionate, caring, determined, dedicated... but i have never felt this way about anyone... i've got all the symptoms of love; heart skipping a beat, butterflies, aching to spend time with her, trying to draw out her hugs... nothing could or would ever happen as she is definitely straight (up until this point i was sure i was too, now i just don't know). she is beautiful and really popular, and as much as she helps me out with my problems i know she thinks of it as her job and nothing more. i am leaving school for uni this summer, and i dread not being able to see her everyday, but at the same time i hope that once i've left we'll keep in touch and can be friends. whether or not i can ever be satisfied with that, well i'll just have to wait and see. Love - - Mar 2nd 2008
I'm also in love with my teacher, I'm male and so is he too. I understand how you feel and it breaks my heart to think that one day I'll have to leave school and never see him again. I've read what people say about "forgetting about it" but you can't just fall out of love, and I can't forget about him because I'm with him 3 hours every week and when I'm not with him I miss him. It makes all those things people worry about seem trivial.. Same - - Feb 28th 2008
I love my teacher too. She's 30. It breaks my heart that I'm leaving school this year and I won't ever see her again. I find ant excuse to walk by her room jsut to see her, and I can't stop thinking about her. Love. - Anonymous - Feb 27th 2008
I'm in love with my female teacher and she is 27. I make any excuse to see her or to walk past her room, and my feelings are SO strong. My heart skips a beat when she talks to me, and everytime I look at her, I can't help but stare at her. It's so hard to forget her, or push her out of my mind, and I've been on the internet and found all these things you're supposed to do. Write a letter and rip it up. I did that, but how can ripping paper stop love. You don't just wake up one morning and stop loving someone. My advice to you is to admire from afar. I could never tell my teacher, because i don't want to jepoardise what we already have, but if she kissed me, I wouldn't tell her to back off though. It pains me to think that in 3 years time, I'll leave school and never see her again, but I can't do anything about it. She will never know how much effort I go to every day, to look good for her, and how every lesson, I don't come early to learn, I come early because I love the moments when its just me and her in the classroom chatting about random things. I know exactly how you feel. And I don't think anyone can help you. But try not to act on your feelings if possible. Anonymous x | 
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